Wednesday, May 21, 2008

A very weird thing happened today...

I shouldnt be so weirded out by it, but... I am.

So, Blaze...and likely Andrea...will remember a certain boyfriend I had in high school. He went to a different school...and was a TOTAL D-BAG. Needless to say, I had a lot of "firsts" with him and thankfully a lot of "lasts" as well....

If there was one person I could remove from my history, in some ways, it would be him by far. In others, I learned a TON...about how I should be treated and what I would never put up with again...and how I mustve had a guardian angel to not get into some deeeeeeep trouble.

It was kinda like Gossip Girl...without the cool clothes or excessive wealth. Kinda. Okay, not at all, but whatever. Let me have my moment.

My personal fave was when he was IN MY HOUSE when I got home from school...waiting on me. CREEP.Y. Or when he had me convinced I needed to drop like 5lbs (which I totally didnt..asshole) or when I saw him leaving one of my (then) best friend's houses across the street after we broke up.

He was a classy guy...even 12 years ago. (crazy how long it's been)

Well, he changed his name...(yes, he really did..cause that's not creepy) and moved away.

We had some knock down drag outs. I seem to remember an iron getting thrown at me....and I think I threw quite a bit at him. Way too much for a freshman relationship. *insert wide eyes shaking my head*

We'll go ahead and tag that as my slightly-violent/abusive/creepy stage of dating for me... The other stages havent been as dramatic.... haha...thankfully.

I never heard from high school guy. Until today. When he found me on facebook.

Whoa. He lives in Florida (a safe distance in other words) and has a daughter. I thought "wow...times have changed...we've both grown up...."

.....until the MOMENT I accepted his friend request and he messaged me. Yeah. STALKER. lol! Said "I was thinking about you...and thought I'd find you on here..."

Um, dude. It's been 12 years. *insert cocky face* I'm memorable...but damn... lol! (Kidding kidding..the only thing I remember is pouring a pepsi on his head at our school carnival..no shit).

Anyway...needless to say, it was weird. He's married...or divorced...or whatever.. I dont know. I'm sure he's grown up, but....name the last person you'd want to be contacted by...

Yeah. WEIRD, right? Anyway, I'm above it and we can be friggin facebook friends. But, that doesnt mean I cant blog about it. So there.

Also... went to sushi with Sarah tonight! YUM! Good times with ITR salads and girlie talk. :))) We missed Brooke and Jenny though. Please pencil us in for soon, lovelies. There's nothing like sushi on the patio with friends...and Honig of course.. Gotta have the Honig. :)

I'll have to blog about the rest of the night with Kelli tomorrow...but it's quite hilarious.... :) Love love.

5 comments:

Stacia said...

That is how my luck seems to be, the creep looks me up, ewwww

care said...

ugh, creepage.

might I recommend making him on your "limited" profile. I mean, in case he ever comes to tulsa, you don't want him seeing where you hang out!

and--well, it's still WAY creepy, but to make you feel better (not downplay the creepage) I admit that I've looked up my ex boyfriends on myspace. He was a horrid part of your life--but still a part of the process. So while the creep factor is SUPER high, it's more because he's a creep and not totally because he looked you up--make sense?

the changing the name part is freaky though. freaky with a side of freak sauce.s

blaze said...

Delete him as your friend asap. He's an asshole regardless of he's changed or not. He sucks, he's creepy, and does not deserve to know about your current life.

I, of course, am completely biase in this situation since I've seen his assholeness 12 years ago.

Andrea said...

WOW!! You know I immediately went to your facebook and checked him out and I SOOOO remember him. OMG I cannot believe he changed his name. That made me think of the referenced "next door neighbor" in the post as well. What ever happened to her?!?

I also had a boyfriend right after high school that was really bad news and I look back at it now and just think about how silly I was and how lucky I am to be here today!

Anyway, great post. Blast from the past...

llane said...

creepy mccreeperson. as if changing your name isn't the ultimate creepy. dude, you are more magnanimous than i. i really don't think i could be even facebook friends with some of my psyco exes.

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