Lately

Knock knock...anyone there? Not me...at least recently. 

Can't say there's been anything bananas going on really... Sometimes I go through blogging breaks unintentionally b/c I just don't feel like I have anything to talk about...Silly really...especially b/c I really never say anything earth-shattering anyway...haha.. Whatevs. 

Anyhoo, lately...

* Eric went skiing for a bachelor party. Everyone survived. :) (He's in the blue/grey coat...front row kneeling down on left). 

 * I've become TOTALLY and completely addicted to this show!

Eric and I just finished season 1 and realized season 2 isn't on iTunes yet. WTH?! We don't have Showtime so this is a problem. Dear Showtime- please release season 2 soon before I go insane!

* Saw these movies...

Reviews: Zero Dark Thirty= slow at first, but then picks up. Probably more about the plot/backstory than some people care for, but I enjoyed it. I also really liked Jessica Chastain in it. 

This is 40= funny, but lots of foul language. I heard it made some older friends uncomfortable. I love Paul Rudd, so I was totally amused even if there were a few gratuitous f bombs. :) 

* Wedding dress shopping! Went dress shopping this weekend for the first time! I found one I loved then went to another store and found another I loved. Then I got home, slept on it, and now think I love neither of those dresses enough for my "big day." (I'm really amused by the phrase "big day" for some reason.) I definitely have a better idea of what style I want though...which was really the point in this first go round anyway. And I quickly realized I could try on wedding dresses all day long every day! :) 

* Totally dropped my iPhone in the dog's water bowl. Seriously. I quickly googled and saw that putting it in a sealed baggie with rice will dry it out. It actually worked! It took around 24 hours (which is why I have no fun photos for you from this weekend), but it's saved! YAY!

Toss in a few happy hours and some Mexican food and that's what I've been up to lately. :) 

It's OK Thursday...

It's OK... ...that Eric and I went to Bieber last night and had a blast! Eric even danced. (See below). As he said... "When in Rome.." haha..

   

...that the "Bieber fever" is more like a Bieber hangover for me today. Too much wine. Too many screaming tweens.

...that our bathroom looks like this right now...or somewhat close to this (see below). Long story short, the first contractor Eric used years ago didn't install a good moisture barrier in the wall, so water leaked through it annnnd the wall behind the tile started disintegrating. Cool stuff. It's getting fixed this week, but we only have one bathroom, so I'm getting major use out of my gym's showers this week. I'm thankful to be a member of the gym in my office building. :)

... I've been intentionally avoiding a couple of wedding vendors who are now STALKING me after the wedding show last weekend. I think they all must trade information after the show.

... I just realized I let my car tag expire...like WAY expire by MONTHS. *head hung in shame* They tack on fines for every day it's late, soooooo...oops. :(

... I have over 8 lip glosses in my handbag right now. I counted.

... I don't understand the multiple wedding dress thing. If you did it, that's awesome and I don't mean offense b/c lots of friends do it and I think it's great! But the way I see it is if I find a dress I LOVE, I want to wear that dress allfreakingnightlong! I mean...right? Maybe I'll change my tune since I haven't even tried on a dress yet, but just saying. *shrugs*

Happy almost weekend! 

Weekend Recap!

Wanna know what's awesome? When people ask me when I'm getting married and I'm able to say "this October.." b/c now it's THIS YEAR! But seriously I have no idea how the heck we're a week into 2013 already...crazy!

Friday

Went to dinner donning my crimson to support the Sooners and celebrate Sara's birthday with friends. Since I went to TU, I kind of think we're the Switzerland of Oklahoma football and really just support the home team regardless whether it's OSU or OU...unless they'playing us...duh. 

Saturday

My mom has wanted to be "included" (I put it in quotes b/c she keeps saying that word) in the wedding planning process, but there hasn't been a whole lot to be included in so far really. Anyhoo, the wedding show was this weekend and I decided it was the perfect way to include her in some festivities. The parking lot was like a drivers ed simulator of random people walking all over like wedding planning zombies on speed, cars coming out of everywhere, etc. I kind of remember it as everyone having a crazed look in their eyes and wearing veils, but I don't think that's what was going on in reality. :) Whatever. Anyway, we opted to avoid the insanity after I cursed loudly at someone who almost hit me and totally freaked out my mother and parked at the nearby Target and hiked toward the hotel where the show was taking place. 

That show was... whoa. Have you been to one of those suckers? I mean.. in a way, it's great for people like me who have certain things they love researching  on their own, but aren't as good at planning certain other things. It also kind of forces you to check out options where you're completely lost and have no idea what to do (ie flowers). But good grief there was so much going on! And so.many.people. I'm also seriously regretting signing up for information from a few booths b/c I think my email is going to be forever spammed. *le sigh* Oh well. Anyhoo, I have to admit I've always wanted to go to the wedding show, so it was fun. :) It was good times with my mom, too. We had a few laughs at some of the random things at booths...and we tasted a lot of cake. A lot. It also got me jumpstarted with planning again. 

Speaking of, I got home from the wedding show and booked two appointments to go try on dresses in a couple of weeks! Eee! I haven't gone yet, so I'm really excited! All my friends keep telling me to have an open mind, even if there's a dress style I think I'll love the most.

...night

Saturday night, Eric and I headed to Abuelos, where they serve very large drinks (see below) and then to see Jack Reacher (Tom Cruise's new flick). Gotta admit.. Tom might be a little cray cray, but you forget all about it in his movies. I'm also semi convinced he's an alien b/c he seriously doesn't look any older.

Sunday

All the Christmas decor came down. I loved being festive and looking at our pretty tree, but it's also really nice to have the space back again. Eric and I may or may not have eaten Mexican food again tonight. Whatever. I'm pretty sure our babies someday will prefer salsa to milk.

Hope everyone had a good weekend!

Holiday photo purge...

I didn't really recap the holidays, so I thought I'd quickly just purge a bunch of photos from the past couple of weeks. :) I had a great Christmas and New Year, although I felt like it snuck up this year more than it has in previous years. Maybe I say that every year.. hmm...don't go back and check...haha..


Lights at Rhema in Tulsa



Lauren visited from London! I'd been lusting after that faux fur at Banana and finally just splurged. :) I wear it...a lot. Like I had to select the photos so it wasn't in more than just a few in this post...

 Attempts to get the dogs to pose in front of the tree on Christmas Eve...

We gave up and just set the self timer. :)

The dogs liked their presents. :) Eric wants his own chew toy. Obviously.

G helped Eric open presents on Christmas morning...



My mom came over for Christmas breakfast + present opening on Christmas morning :) She wore a Santa hat. It was cute.


We were planning to make the drive to OKC later that day to see Eric's family, but threats of snow and ice made us reschedule OKC for later in the week.

(I love this photo)

So yeah.. those threats of snow and ice that kept us from going to OKC on Christmas? We got nothing. No ice. No snow. Yet this is what we drove in on Friday to get to OKC.. haha.. Sheesh. Oklahoma weather.

At Eric's parents' house. :) The guys all got remote control helicopters as one of their gifts. I'll just let you imagine how much our dogs love the helicopter..haha.. Admittedly, the little copters are pretty cool...even if I always crash it.

Me, Eric, his brother and sister (front) after indoor go-kart racing! I'd never done it! So fun! (And I didn't crash!)

OKC puts up a big snow-tubing ramp- complete with man-made snow- at their ballpark! How cool is that?! $10 gets you all the tubing you want for a couple hours.

 

Since it was like 30 degrees, my rear went a little numb after a few times and we all decided we'd had our fill, but I really want to go again next year! What a cool thing! I wish Tulsa would do it.



Girls night with Jenny and Ashley! Eric drove me...which is a good thing. I'll leave it at that. Oh and if you've had Mi Cocina's mambo taxis, you understand the fun that ensued. :) I think they cap you at three of those suckers.



Cheered on TU in the Liberty Bowl on NYE day

The only photo we took at dinner (thanks Jill! :) ) on NYE with friends. :)



Stopped by a fun little NYE shindig to ring in 2013! I gave it the thumbs up! Or maybe I was giving my cocktail the thumbs up. Or my hat. Not sure. Anyway, good times. :)



And if you're still with me in this randomly long post, I also found a dress I think will work for our rehearsal dinner (yes, I realize that's a ways away). :) And it was on MAJOR SALE in the BCBG area of Dillards! This photo doesn't do it justice really b/c it looks like a summer cotton. It's not. It's a nicer fabric and lays really well. Anyhoo, I was pumped b/c I'd seen this dress on Pinterest and really liked it, but didn't like the price tag.

I'm glad this is a short week b/c I'm having issues getting back in the swing of things. Yesterday, I left my work laptop (that has to be docked at my desk) at home. I got here, sat down, made some hot tea, and then went "Aw crap..." and had to head back home.. Sheez. 

Resolutions

When I started this blog, I liked to do a long (rambling) post about whether I met my previous year's resolutions and my new ones for the year. I've kind of gotten away from that. After all, the big picture things stay the same year to year... I really just resolve to be the best version of myself. To me, that means many things that could tie up your blog feeds with deep thoughts and rambles...haha.. Instead, how about I post some of the fun, lighter stuff I think I'll also focus on for 2013...

I resolve to...

* Take better care of my skin. I take decent care of it already, but I could definitely be better. I find myself researching the best eye creams and all that jazz regularly. (When did I get old enough to care about eye cream? Sheez). Anyhoo, Eric's parents got me a Clarisonic for Christmas and I'm already in love! Just one more thing to help my healthy skin routine.

* Run a half marathon. I posted about this awhile ago, but Eric and I are both determined to accomplish this in 2013! Considering I've done one 5K ever...and I may have walked a bit during it... this is not an easy feat for yours truly. It we both want to do it, there's no year like the year we're getting married, right?!

* Eat more vegetables. I don't eat horribly at all. But I definitely don't think about veggies as much as I should. Plan: Include at least one veggie as a side with every meal I make at home. Easy enough, right? (*nervous face*)

* Tackle unpleasant things head on. I have a tendency to put off unpleasant things or tasks, but don't we all?

* Read more. Law school somewhat zapped my love of reading for pleasure but gradually, it's coming back. Last year was a good reading year and I wanna keep it up! :)

* Soak up every little bit of being engaged and wedding planning. I'm a total cheeseball, but I just love it because it means I'm getting closer to marrying Eric. Even writing that makes me smile. See? Total. Cheeseball. *rolling eyes at myself*

* Actually write something in the "about me" section of this blog...haha.. *head hung in shame* Blerg. I kind of forgot about it.

Whatever you resolve, cheers to the new year and to it being a great one, friends!

2012/2013!

As cheesy as this sounds, I couldn't have asked for more from 2012. This time last year, I was happy.. don't get me wrong.. I was very happy.. But, I was also fresh from turning 30 and wondering where my life was going to take me next. Eric and I had JUST decided to move in together and I was nervous...I mean, I wasn't but I was. Everything was going great, but what if we moved in together and wanted to claw each other's eyes out, ya know? Thankfully, that's not the case. I'm a planner; it's just what I do. And I went into 2012 somewhat plan-less.  I mean, there's always a plan, but I was just willing to see where the year took me, I guess... 

I am so thankful for the past year...Words are probably inadequate for my feelings (which is a rarity for me..haha). From moving in together to traveling to Barbados to celebrating Eric's 30th to getting engaged (!!), it was a fantastic year for Eric and me! Here are some photos (b/c you knew I couldn't leave out photos). ;)

Eric got two new roomies- me...and Gracie dog! 

Engaged!!!

2012 had a lot of other fun, too... from benchmark birthday celebrations with friends to new babies, weddings, my trip to Europe, and adding a new furry family member!

(That time the skinny arm pose ends up just looking awkward. Whatever).

2012 was truly a great year. I can only hope 2013 will be as full of fabulousness for all of us. :)

Merry Christmas!

I had the best of intentions to do a Christmas wish list post, Christmas treats post, yada yada...but alas, time got away from me. Doesn't it feel CRAZY that we're almost to 2013?! The year flew...with many blessings along the way. :)

I hope you're gearing up for a fantastic Christmas with family and loved ones! Our Christmas festivities start this afternoon with a movie with my mom and continue into the Eve with Eric's family. We're planning on seeing my mom tomorrow morning then heading to OKC to visit Eric's family, but the forecast is calling for 100% chance of snow, soooooo we all might re-evaluate that plan. 

This was our first year to send out Christmas cards together, so I thought I would post the finished product. :) Little Winston hadn't joined the family yet when these were ordered or else he'd be in them, antlers and all! 

(back of card)

Wishing you love, family, friendship, laughter and all the blessings the holiday has to offer. Merry Christmas, friends!

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After a Christmas dinner with friends tonight, Sara and I are headed back to her house to watch the finale of our favorite fictional socialites. Six seasons of Monday nights spent sipping wine with friends and sighing over Chuck Bass all come down to tonight. Yes, I am 31 years old and yes this season has been slow and crappy, but am I ready to ride this sucker to the end? Hell yes!

Do you watch? If so, who do you think GG is? Do you think they'll tell us? I don't even know who I'd want it to be...

"You know you love me... XOXO...."

Weekend Recap!

Hiya friends! Are you done with your Christmas shopping yet? I'm getting close, but not quite. Something tells me a lunch break this week will be spent at the mall because I have NO desire to go next weekend when it's an absolute madhouse. 

Well let's see... I'll start off with how the doggies are doing. What a difference a week makes! At first, I was so nervous b/c Gracie was warming so slowly. She wasn't growling or anything, but she just seemed "off." I think she still has moments of "why is this dog up in my grill?" but overall, they're really fantastic together! They've even started sleeping on the same bed most nights. It's pretty cute; not gonna lie. 

This looks like tug of war. But in reality, both dogs were just standing there refusing to let go or move. It was pretty funny. 

I'm sure the neighbors have been getting a kick out of watching me attempt to walk both dogs. Especially because Winston isn't used to a leash and decides to sit down and not move halfway through most walks. (Picture me carrying Winston and trying to walk Gracie simultaneously. It happened.)

Friday night, Eric and I headed out with some friends for dinner and wine. We were all very somber after the day's news. I have no words that can adequately describe my feelings about what happened. I don't even think my heart really understands that level of horribleness. My prayers are filled with wishes of peace for the families of those children and teachers. My mother is a teacher. She's armed with books, lesson plans, chalk and crayons. I will never understand...

Changing gears before I start crying or ranting about our society. My heart is heavy and my prayers are long...

Saturday, we hit up two Christmas parties. One was for our little group of girlfriends at Ashley's house and the other was for a community organization Eric's involved with. I didn't take any photos at party number two b/c I didn't know anyone so that might have been a tinge weird...:)

Sunday was full of cleaning, errands, and attempts to finish Christmas shopping. Close, but no cigar. I've also started to realize I have a slight problem buying Christmas ornaments. Our tree needed a few more, so I started buying them everywhere I went. I think I need an ornamentivention.

It's official!

You guys... thank you SO much for your sweet comments about little Winston- especially for the comments about adding an additional dog to your families! You really, really put me at ease. I just realized some of you don't have the "reply" feature active so I couldn't respond directly to your comment in email, but seriously.. I really appreciate you. Gracie is already coming around a TON and even barked at the foster mom tonight when she came over to sign paperwork! ha! I think she was saying "Hey now...you can't take this guy!" :) 

Gracie was about to bolt off the couch, but this was cute for a second. :)

I think little Winston was a little sad to see his foster mom go. He sat at the door looking out for a bit. But, then he came and laid beside me with his head on my lap. I already love this little guy. So happy he's found his home here with us. 

I had a couple friends give me tips about making sure Gracie feels like the alpha and the tips have helped immensely! It's crazy actually! It's as easy as greeting her first, putting her food down first, and giving her a treat first. Winston always steps aside and lets her go out the back door first (a sign that he already thinks she's the alpha). Doing those little things has put her at ease a lot more than she was initially. She's so demure, so it's funny that she's the alpha dog. She's even the alpha with my mom's bigger dog. Bossy little thing! ha! :) 

Finally, I believe in rescuing. I won't get on a soapbox about it, but please know you can find fantastic, healthy,  full breed dogs (if that's what you're looking for), but you might just have to be a little patient if you're looking for a specific dog. In Tulsa alone, over 7, 500 animals were euthanized last year. That's just heartbreaking. If you are ever, EVER told to meet a breeder at a parking lot/random place, be cautious the dog might be coming from a mill.  There should be no reason a reputable breeder wouldn't be okay with you seeing their home. We had a dog from a breeder when I was a little girl and he was great! He's the reason I fell in love with doggies! So I don't mean to imply that I shun reputable breeders because I definitely don't. But, please, please consider rescue if you're adopting a new furry family member. 

Here's where we found Winston! If you even read some of the many stories on the site, you'll see why I was often in tears every time I spent more than 5 minutes on their page...haha.. So many good dogs just needing some love. :) 

I'm so glad Winston found his home with us!! :)